The man thinks his wife is playing a victim.
The OP wrote, “I told her I didn’t believe it, and she was using pumping and milk production as an excuse to take a break and get away for an hour. I do not mind giving her a break, but I feel like she’s making it up to justify a break. She accused me of calling her a liar.
(Btw, when I say long hours, I’m talking like 14–18 hours a day, 6 days a week. There are days I only have 6 hours off between shifts but stead of sleeping, I have to watch our baby for an hour, and it results in me only getting 5 hours of sleep for several nights. And I do help out a little during the 6 days, and we split the rest of the work on my off day.)”
