I’ve always tried to live my life in a way that doesn’t inconvenience others.
Yes, I am a plus-size woman. I’ve been living with a health condition for years that makes weight management extremely difficult. I’ve learned to accept it, but I’m also mindful of how my size might affect those around me.
That’s why, whenever I travel by plane, I buy two seats — not because I think I don’t deserve the same space as everyone else, but because it’s the considerate thing to do. It allows me to sit comfortably, and it gives my fellow passengers room to breathe. My space is my business.

This flight was no different.
It was a sunny afternoon when I arrived at the airport, suitcase rolling behind me. I’d been looking forward to this trip for months — a short getaway to visit my best friend, whom I hadn’t seen in over a year. The thought of our planned coffee dates, long walks, and late-night chats brought a smile to my face.
When my boarding group was called, I walked down the jet bridge and stepped into the familiar, slightly cool air of the cabin. My assigned seats were by the window, rows 14A and 14B. Perfect.
I placed my bag in the overhead bin, slid into the window seat, and set my headphones around my neck. I took a deep breath, letting the quiet anticipation of the flight wash over me.
