My Father Threw Me Out When I Was 18 and Pregnant—Now He Came Begging for My Child’s Help

4. You can involve professionals.

If you’re open to exploring compatibility, you could insist that everything go through a neutral, professional channel:

• Speak directly with the child’s doctor or transplant coordinator.
• Ask for a full explanation of the procedure, risks, and alternatives.
• Get everything in writing.
  This way, you’re making an informed decision, not an emotional one.