Online users were just as astonished by the unfolding events.
- That DNA test was also for your baby, even if your husband insisted he was fine. I understand how you thought it was important that there was no doubt among your in-laws who were making comments, so it was crucial to establish paternity beyond any doubt. No one ever implied she wasn’t his as she grew up. MIL should have never made those comments, and now she’s getting what she tried to deal you, except she’s actually guilty of cheating. © lobosaguila / Reddit
- Another possibility is that the MIL and FIL did in-vitro with a sperm donor and never told their son. The son should have a DNA test as well. This will clear up any of the scenarios, i.e. MIL had an affair, son was switched at birth, sperm donor, etc. © shbrinnnn / Reddit
- MIL should’ve kept her comments to herself. People who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw bricks. But you will be the bad person if you forbid your husband from talking with his parents about this. He supported you, so you should be supporting him. © Responsible-Pen-4386 / Reddit
- There is a small chance the husband isn’t related to MIL either, though. As in, switched at birth or secretly adopted. © Gaosnl / Reddit
- You didn’t cheat nor your husband… this is called ramifications of your MIL’s actions back then (cheating) and projecting it onto you now, so much that you sought a way to shut her up. Now she is going to pay the piper for both. If she had kept her mouth shut now, she wouldn’t have been caught. © TakeTheCanolli / Reddit
- Newborn eye color is not set at birth, babies are born with blue eyes or grayish eyes, depending. Green eyes specifically usually start out blue and take months to literally years to turn green. © PrudentOwlet / Reddit
- However, this isn’t a confrontation. It’s a conversation — and not one you should be a part of. It should be a private conversation between your husband and his mother. They could have used a sperm donor and never told anyone. She could have had an affair. I want to be clear this isn’t your business, and you don’t need to be a part of this conversation. It also isn’t your job to tell your FIL. Once your husband calmly talks to his mother, they get to decide what to do. His father is his father regardless of paternity. Don’t blow up someone’s life. © BlueBelle2019 / Reddit
- You didn’t «start the end of his parents’ marriage.» On the other side, do not assume your MIL is «a liar and a hypocrite.» There are various reasons why your FIL may not be your husband’s biological father — he could be sterile, among other possibilities. Frankly, their marriage is not even your husband’s business, just as his marriage is not their concern. He would be within his rights to ask once, privately and calmly, about his father for the purpose of determining his risk for hereditary diseases. © Pentdecag0n / Reddit
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