If you’re with a man who doesn’t appreciate you, the most important thing is this:
You don’t teach someone to value you by overgiving, chasing, or staying longer — You teach them by how you respond to being undervalued.
Here’s what you should do — in clear, grounded steps.
1. Get honest with yourself
Ask:
Am I feeling taken for granted?
Do I feel emotionally drained around him?
Is he showing consistent effort or just doing the bare minimum to keep me around?
Don’t justify his behavior. See it clearly.
